I am fascinated by how the dynamics of cognitive dissonance and post-trauma stress deeply shape our society, the way rocks on the stream bed shape the surface of the river above; I think understanding that is key to understanding and repairing how very fucked up things are. And I would love to spank you, not only to feel your bottom in my hand (love that), and to develop a sense communication / flesh memory response between my hand and your buttocks, but also to explore the emotional meaning we have buried deeply (or not so) and to just what else it is hardwired both as the spankee and the spanker. Also I love to feel you writhe and squirm — what’s up with that?